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Fall 2004 THE BONNY METHOD OF GUIDED IMAGERY & MUSIC
Variation of responses to the music is endless and fascinating. Sessions can take many directions, often times far a field from stated goals. Experiences include memories, healing sensations, emotional expression, rituals, or fantasy episodes. Over time, patterns may become evident, common themes may emerge and certain symbols or metaphors may take on significance. Powerful therapeutic breakthroughs may occur that were seemingly unreachable during standard talk therapy. A 25-year old college student and single mother came to therapy confused about her current relationship. She was dating someone who expressed love for her but she was uncertain, describing her heart as "numb." During sleepless nights, she obsessed on her recent divorce, replaying scenes from her marriage and trying to sort out blame. This lack of sleep was affecting her job performance - she had been placed on probation. We began a series of ten sessions. During initial sessions, J.'s imagery focused around cemeteries and memories of long-gone relatives. In one key session, she found herself in a graveyard for "dead marriages" where she was able to read the headstone of her own failed relationship. In her session, as the melody of a solo flute rose, she fell to her knees and sobbed. Thus began some important grief work. In sessions that followed, musical selections featured the flute since J. seemed to have a strong cathartic connection to this instrument. J. left each session emotionally spent but reported that she was sleeping better. Eventually, J. was able to put closure to her relationship with her ex-husband. She reported feeling much closer to her partner. Her latest work review had been quite positive. At our last session, she spoke about her hopes for the future at both work and in her relationship. "I finally told him he could move in," she said with a huge smile. Another patient came to me to deal with extreme anxiety. She was dealing with serious medical problems resulting in an inability to swallow. She had a small hole in the musculature that she experienced as "the big stone in my throat." When I met D., she was feeding herself through a tube and had lost over 40 pounds. All viable treatment attempts had failed. Her doctors had told her that she should "put her affairs in order." During
our sessions, D. focused on the string section, weeping that her deceased
father used to play violin. Over the next few sessions, she tried to
interact with her father but he never seemed to hear her. In one crucial
session, she re-experienced an event from her teen years in which she
tried to explain to her father why she wanted to go to law school. He
refused to listen. She suddenly noticed "the big stone in her throat"
for the first time, accompanied by a feeling of not being able to "voice
herself." She began to understand how the stone had been come to
be and focused on it over next few sessions. During one powerful musical
climax, the stone transformed itself into a beautiful pearl. Following
this session, she was able to swallow intermittently. Over time, she
began a combination tube feeding-eating regimen. She gained 19 pounds,
felt better than she had in years and started a nutritional counseling
practice. Sha'ari Garfinkel, MSW, MT-BC, FAMI, RC is a nationally board-certified music therapist, social worker, ordained minister and registered counselor who was awarded the title of Fellow in the Bonny Method in 1995 by the Association for Music & Imagery. She holds a Master of Social Work degree and is director of Medical Music Therapies & Counseling in Seattle, WA. She offers groups, trainings and workshops and specializes in treating clients with emotional issues and chronic or life-threatening illnesses. |